American Culture & Adjustment
Understanding U.S. customs, cultural values, and tips for adjusting to life at Drury University.
U.S. Cultural Values at Drury
Understanding U.S. culture and how it shapes life at Drury can help you adjust more smoothly. Many core American cultural values show up in classrooms, friendships, and daily interactions.
Friendliness
Students and staff often greet each other with "Hi, how are you?" This is a social ritual, not always expecting a detailed answer.
Punctuality
Being on time for classes, appointments, and meetings is important. Arriving late can be seen as disrespectful.
Individualism
Americans often value personal independence and taking initiative. At Drury, students are encouraged to shape their own path.
Informality
Students may dress casually and address faculty by first name when invited. This doesn't mean a lack of respect.
Communication Style
- Direct communication is valued - saying what you think clearly is encouraged
- Eye contact is expected and interpreted as honesty and engagement
- Asking questions in class is encouraged and shows engagement
- Saying "no" directly is acceptable when needed
- Competition and talking about achievements is more common and accepted
Social Norms & Etiquette
Greetings
- Firm handshake is common
- Smiling when greeting others
- "Please," "thank you," "excuse me"
Personal Space
- Text or message before visiting
- Respect quiet hours with roommates
- Negotiate shared space expectations
Table Manners
- Chew with mouth closed
- Napkin in lap
- Small gifts when visiting homes
Public Behavior
- Cover mouth when coughing
- No smoking in most buildings
- Don't litter - use trash bins
Understanding Culture Shock
Culture shock describes the stress and disorientation that can happen when you move into a new culture. Common feelings include excitement, frustration, homesickness, confusion, or fatigue from processing new things.
These reactions are normal and don't mean you made a mistake by coming to Drury. They are part of the process of learning to navigate a new educational system and way of life.
Stages of Adjustment
- 1 Initial "honeymoon" period of excitement
- 2 Frustration or homesickness phase
- 3 Gradual adaptation and understanding
- 4 Comfort and confidence in navigating both cultures
Tips for Adjusting
Be Patient
Give yourself time - you're learning new academic norms, social rules, and practical skills all at once.
Create a Routine
Balance classwork with sleep, meals, exercise, and relaxation using campus resources.
Stay Connected
Keep in touch with family at home while also investing in new relationships at Drury.
Get Involved
Join student organizations, attend campus events, and participate in Drury traditions.
Make Friends
Form study groups, talk with classmates, and connect with roommates and neighbors.
Getting Help
International Support Services
Guidance on immigration, orientation, and daily life topics including transitioning into a new community.
Behavioral Health Services
Confidential support if culture shock, stress, or homesickness affect your sleep, appetite, or concentration.
Student Support Services
Programs, peer networks, and workshops to help build intercultural skills and find community.